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Future For Patients with Asperger’s Syndrome

What Will the Future Hold for Patients with Asperger’s Syndrome?

Although the early diagnosis often gives parents and caregivers a distinct advantage when seeking to begin treatment and adaptive modifications that make life in a society of individuals unaffected with the disease more possible, the long term outlook is not entirely understood.

Considering that attention paid to Asperger’s Syndrome in the United States did not come about until just a few short decades ago, long term case studies are virtually non-existent.

Conversely, for those adults who are extrapolated to be diagnosed with Asperger’s Syndrome, a complete and accurate case history is not usually available. There are, however, some theories that Dr. Asperger himself championed:

* Adults with Asperger’s Syndrome will not lose the symptoms of the disorders. They may be camouflaged through ageing and adaptive measures, but they are not lost.
* Employment and normal functioning in society is a distinct possibility, although not each and every job will be a good fit.
* There is a good chance that a person suffering with this disorder will be able to put to good use their special talent or skill that is amplified by Asperger’s Syndrome. This may come in handy in fields of mathematics and other sciences.
* There is a not completely understood causation when it comes to mental illness and Asperger’s Syndrome.

Behavioural scientists and physicians are uncertain if the presence of one causes the other or vice versa. In some cases there may be a direct relationship between the inability to function in everyday society and the accurately perceived inability to live up to standards considered normal by peers.

In extreme situations this had led to clinical appointments and forced commitments due to threats of suicides.

Even advocacy attempts are sharply divided when it comes to gauging the overall outcome for adults with the ailment.

Those who are determined to put a good spin on their advocacy will point to famous award winners and show that all can be overcome, while those with a vested stake in securing a more negative outcome will point to those committed for attempting suicide or living in relative isolation.

There is sadly no distinct outcome and at this point there is a lack of studies that permits for adequate generalization.

At this point parents and caregivers are urged not to look for long-term studies in an attempt to predict what the future may hold for children or adolescents, but instead to focus with single minded intent on adaptive measures that will help the individuals affected with Asperger’s Syndrome to master the here and now.

Although this flies in the face of many other advocacy movements, when it comes to those conditions related to the autism spectrum, the here and now quite frequently is as good as it will get.

If you believe that your child or adolescent is affected with this condition, it is crucial to have a diagnosis made as soon as possible, so that modifications in the surroundings and also education and vocational setup may be made quickly for best results.

Building A Childs Self Esteem

Helping Children Build Self-Esteem

The child's growing up years is very crucial as this stage is formative and will set the overall personality of the child as he heads towards adulthood. That is why, as much as possible, children should develop healthy self-esteem during childhood years.

Positive self-esteem would certainly be a child's asset as he moves on the journey and conquer the world's many challenges. Take note that children who have healthy self-esteem tend to succeed when facing life's negative pressures and conflicts.

Low self-esteem transforms children to become individuals who are frustrated and anxious about how the world works. Such children tend to become societal problems and deprive themselves of the many opportunities that may otherwise come their way.

Children with low self-esteem also become apparently self-critical, withdrawn, depressed and passive. They tend not to become open to challenges and natural changes and underestimate their own capability.

Defining self-esteem

Before attempting to help children develop positive self-esteem, it is imperative that you first know the nature and meaning of self-esteem.

Self-esteem is self-perception and is the set of beliefs and feelings one has about him or herself.

Self-esteem is directly implicated with confidence and fighting spirit; the very significant factors that help every individual accomplish tasks and head towards achievement.

Psychologists emphasize that self-esteem begins to be manifested early in life. As a toddler, you may probably remember the sense of achievement you attain when you start learning how to stand or how to reach for objects.

It is important to note that one achievement would pave the way for another achievement. As life goes on, those accomplishments become parts of a chain that define the overall personality of a person.

If the child develops low self-esteem, he may tend to be critical of himself and doubt his ability, leaving him to just sit and not exert effort to achieving any other attainments. Such a situation is truly dangerous.

In contrast, children with high self-esteem exhibit boldness and courage to keep on trying to achieve goals. They are not afraid to try, even fail. They treat failures as learning experiences that would be of great help to achieve many other goals in the future.

Here are several simple tips on how you, as a parent, could help foster high self-esteem in your child.

Be careful of what you say. Sometimes, people tend to say out loud expressions that may be taken as comments on people. If you say something bad after learning what your child did or failed to do, like 'stupid', s/he may retain that and tag himself as stupid.

Remember, children are very sensitive to the words their parents say to them.

Try to be as positive and praise your child for any achievement, be it simple or great, he may attain.
praise himHelping children build self-esteem

Set a good role model.

Children will always look up to you as a model, so try to act as appropriately as you can, especially when they around. They would tend to imitate your manners and deeds, so be extremely careful in setting out examples.

Be affectionate. Aside from moral and emotional support, experts assert that children need to be loved. Remember, you can never boost your child's self-esteem without making it clear to him that he is unconditionally loved. Another point, if the child perceives that his parents do not leave, he might start wondering, who else will?

That would make him feel insignificant.

Give praise. Praise your child whenever he does good deeds or achieves a simple goal. Be lavish in praise and subtle and constructive in criticism. For example, if your child fails a math test, tell him you are proud that he made his best instead of putting pressure by saying that he should have done better.

Make the home his sanctuary, his source of nurturing and love. To do so, make sure you and your spouse do not stage a fight in front of the child.

child abuseA child who may witness ugly encounters may tend to be depressed and become withdrawn, leading him to a lower self-esteem.

If you think you cannot easily and effectively handle that, try seeking advice and professional help from a child or family counselor.

Do not hesitate to do the best you can to develop healthy self-esteem in your child.

It is your responsibility to raise him to become a good and achieving individual in the future.

Don't Forget to Praise Your Child

The Long-lasting Rewards of Encouragement: Don’t Forget to Praise Your Child!

How can we explain why there are kids who grow up lazy, timid, and very shy, with lots of insecurities and without self-respect? They grow up rude and don’t even respect elders including their parents as well.

How about those kids who lack intelligence?

smart kidsNo matter what you do, you have already provided all the books that he need, enrolled him in a good school and tutored him almost everyday, but still he has no interest in education! Why is this?

If, for instance, you are a parent who experiences this kind of dilemma, maybe you should ask yourself why! Perhaps, the fault is in you! Examine your relationship with your child. Are your efforts enough? Maybe not!

Studies have shown that those kids who normally excel in school are those who experience an abounding love from their parents. They are the ones who are well disciplined in school, healthy and lively! They are friendly, playful, and obedient and know how to respect elders.

Parenting is a big factor by which children are moulded the right way.

However, different people have different ways of showing love and care and others are very authoritative while some are not.

In parenting you should consider both being authoritative and gentle at the same time. As a parent, you should also learn how to be consistent in carrying out rules to your children. By this way, you’ll be able to inculcate in your child a sense of respect.

However, you need not always demonstrate a very strict attitude, to the point that your child becomes intimidated. It is also important that you let him practice his own authority over things. Just don’t forget to guide him. And whether he succeeds in his decisions or not, always praise him!

Regular praise and encouragement help a child develop self-esteem and confidence. These two factors determine why children succeed in whatever endeavour they are in, whether in academics, sports, music and arts.

As a parent, you feel so fulfilled when you see your child stand out, right?

But, it is not a good reason to always push your child to excel in academics if he is not good at it. The best thing to do is continuous encouragement and guidance.

Take note that not all kids have the same learning capacities.

One research about grade school students, who came from different socio-economic settings, showed that children do succeed in such activities if they are praised.

This study has emphasized that praises would not only mean recognizing their ability and performance towards their work but also their efforts to do it.

As one psychologist quoted – when you only pay tribute to the achievements of your children without seeing their effort and eagerness, you’ll put them to eventual frustration when they fall short of doing well.

Always remember that kids feel a sense of belonging by how their parents communicate certain words and actions.

They understand the relevance of doing their best by how the parents respond and react with their works.

They also learn how to cooperate outside their homes as they experience some domestic responsibilities within the family.

How to Create a Competitive Child

Competitive ChildCreating a competitive child is an enduring process included in the pursuit of good parenting. It is impossible to motivate and train a child overnight.

Certain values and standards are understood and applied through the process of internalization and constant reminder.

It is not bad to constantly remind your children about doing their homework, just don’t sound like you are nagging them.

A competitive child is determined by his or her self-esteem and confidence. You can say that your child is competitive when he or she genuinely believes in his or her capabilities. It will definitely show in his actions and responses.

Children usually acquire self-esteem from the influence of the parents. It can be genetically acquired or learned through training and education.

If the parents don’t have confidence, there is a possibility that the children would not have it also. However, it can be developed through proper training, reminder and encouragement.

How can you promote confidence to your child?

You can simply do this by letting him know that he belongs in the family.

Showing unconditional love would assure him that he is part of the family.

Let him learn to do new things.

Allow him to participate in some household chores.

This way, he will learn how to contribute responsibly, thus will make him more confident when tasked to do things on his own.

As you follow these simple steps, you’ll see a remarkable difference.

You will notice that your child becomes more confident in doing schoolwork. Eventually, you will reap the benefits of seeing your child succeed in his life.